I had pulled out all the Christmas presents to wrap while the rest of the family was off running errands yesterday morning. I am moving into the holiday spirit. If feels like I'm getting a handle on the to do list. It's time for some Christmas music! This occurs every year just a few days before Christmas. I steal back my bluetooth speaker from my eldest and I pick a Rat Pack Christmas album on Pandora to listen to.
I have not walked this rainy day and I don't want to go to the crowded mall which is my go to for inclimate weather. But this music by Frank, Nat, and Dean makes me want to move. I wonder if I can get my cardio in this way?! "Fly Me to the Moon", "The Way You Look Tonight", "I Love You for Sentimental Reasons", "I Could Write a Book" and "Fever" are the selections that are played after my Christmas album is over.
Pandora really knows Me (Okay, yes, they have a good algorithm. )
As I'm wrapping the presents that only I know about, I will be delighted to see the family's reactions when they open the presents. I'm on a little high. I'm dancing and wrapping.
It's such a lovely delicate moment.
And then it pops in my head and heart that I'm channeling my mother in law right now.
My mother in law, Mary loved Christmas and Frank Sinatra. She had several of his CDs in her collection that we have now. Her parents did not have a lot of money as she grew up in a Pennsylvania coal mining town
I had wondered why I loved to dance and clean the kitchen to this era of music that I did not belong to. And it finally dawned on me, it was Mary. Mary was my savior with our young daughters. She delighted in spending time with our family, but she also would quietly wash clothes, clean the kitchen and loved ironing! What?!! She also sat down and played with the kids, even climbing in the crib to do so.
There comes a time when you can feel your departed loved ones presence. It hit me that GaGa was with me as I wrapped. Goose bumps arose when I put the two together. I have heard TV mediums says those goosebumps or when emotions wash over you means your loved ones are present with you.
I believe it.
Mallory and I were in Piccadilly months ago, and there was an older gentleman playing a keyboard for the older crowd that was there. My old soul youngest child loves Piccadilly mashed potatoes and friend chicken. We sat down with our food and I started listening and I was overcome with emotion. It was not my era of music and I don't really remember what they were playing but Dad came into my mind. He loved to dance and this was his era. Blueberry Hill was playing when we left. It's very powerful when these emotions come over you. It cannot be denied, something is going on.
These moments don't last long but when they come along, I acknowledge them and the person they remind me of. It's a bit of delicate mysticism and I embrace it fully.
The rest of the family thinks I'm crazy, but I want to visit a local medium. I'll let you know what happens.