I wrote a Facebook post a while ago about the fact that I don't recognize the Republican party who is taking away healthcare and food from the poor so that billionaires can have more money and to gather up more brown people and put in concentration camps for profit. A commenter from my hometown stated that there were no votes to cut healthcare or feed the poor. This is completely untrue and they pivoted away from that truth and went to abortion again and again. A couple of my friends who disagreed with him joined in and off it went for several hours.
It took me time to see that the responder changed the subject, because he had to validate his vote for Trump. He stated he can't vote for a party that supports abortion because he is pro-life. His dogged determination to support fetus cells outweighs everything that can happen to humans outside the womb. It outweighs every criminal and immoral act of Trump and that was enlightening. He changed the subject when his points were no longer valid.
And we let him change the subject.
This is me reflecting that I have to learn to voice myself in the moment, but I need practice. And I needed to recognize what was happening. I freeze during confrontation, and that is why I take the time to write. I need to stay on the subject. Writing helps me get my bearings, stay open and even keeled.
The Facebook encounter was enlightening because there was one issue that this person was basing his vote on. For years, myself and many many others can't wrap our heads around the continued support of Trump. The Republican party has been hijacked and they have let it happen but the reality is this is who the party is. This is who the party is. There were many times Congress could have stood up and taken power away from this horrendous individual, but they caved to the despot over and over and over again. It was heartening though that this person on FB doesn't agree with everything that Trump is doing. A small amount of heartening but I took it.
Even now, I just got diverted from the topic I intended but it is worth sharing. I just looked up the Moral Majority because of the abortion discussion. Did you know that prior to the Moral Majority movement in the 70's and 80's that the Southern Baptist Convention was in favor of opening up access to abortion in many cases throughout the 70's and after Roe v. Wade? Look it up! Abortion is a very complicated moral matter and many religious leaders reflected that in their stance on the issue at the time. Even James Dobson, in 1973 said the Bible was silent on abortion and that an evangelical could believe that “a developing embryo or fetus was not regarded as a full human being.” The Moral Majority movement used abortion to be the issue to get people to vote Republican because the real issue at hand wasn't as popular to voters. The motive behind the anti-abortion movement was so that whites-only segregationist academies, many church sponsored (Bob Jones University & Jerry Falwell's included) could keep their IRS tax-exempt status. So racism was the underlying reason. This is why the Trump party wants to ban books about race. These are the types of things one learns when they read history.
Now back to what I should have said in the post.
I don't vote for a party who supports the person who tried to overthrow our government to stop the formal process of certifying a free and fair election by planning and starting a riot. I don't vote for the party that lets that insurrection play out for hours without calling in reinforcements and lets police die. I don't vote for the party who asks Georgia's top election official to "find 11,780 votes" and then terrorizes the election workers and lies about an election being stolen. I don't vote for the party who supports the person who grabs women by the pussy, and is convicted of sexual assault. I don't vote for the party of the person who willfully retains national defense information in their bathroom, which falls under the Espionage Act. I don't vote for the party of the person who lied over 30,000 times his first administration. (We knew he was lying about Project 2025 too.) I don't vote for the party who supports the convicted felon due to breaking campaign finance laws. I don't vote for a party who supports the person who steals from charities and lies on their taxes. I don't vote for the party of the person who runs a fraudulent university and has a 25 million guilty verdict. I don't vote for party of the person (& his family) who profits off the office immeasurably. I don't vote for a party of the person who golfs every weekend and we pay millions to his businesses. I don't vote for the party who supports the person who brags about watching underage teenage beauty contestants change clothes because the owns the pageant.
This list can go on and on. That was my highlight real.
I don't want to fight on Facebook, it does no good and my nervous system then interferes with my sleep. But as our country is in the throws of fascism I have to say something.
For those who can't see it:
Key characteristics of fascism:
Authoritarianism: Fascism concentrates power in a single leader or party, suppressing dissent and individual freedoms. (Republican Congress persons have to bow to Trump's every whim or he goes against them and they lose their job)
Ultranationalism: Fascism promotes an intense form of nationalism, often emphasizing racial or cultural purity and superiority. (wrapping themselves in flags, he vilifies all non-white immigrants and people, those "shithole countries" cancelling DEI)
Militarism: Fascist regimes often glorify military power and conquest, using it to enforce their ideology and expand their influence. (military parade, use of unidentified ICE agents to round up brown individuals, describes military who get caught or come back wounded as losers)
Suppression of Opposition: Fascism actively suppresses or eliminates political rivals, critics, and minority groups. (attacks on Obama, Clinton, Biden now trying to use HIS justice system to do so)
State Control: Fascism seeks to control various aspects of society, including the economy, media, and education, to promote its goals. (Starts tariff wars because he can, suing media networks, excluding history of non-whites and slavery from classroom education, book bans.
Rejection of Liberalism and Democracy: Fascism opposes the principles of individual rights, freedom of speech, and democratic governance. (Wants to break up peaceful protests by force which are a first amendment right)
The facisim is playing out every day and getting stronger.
Another reason why I couldn't vote for the Trump party. One huge mode of operation of his is narcissism. He continuously hates on anyone who disagrees with him. He is so emotionally fragile he cannot handle having opposition. He hates Democrats or anyone who disagrees with him and wants them in jail and expresses that often. This bully tactic enthralls certain sects of his supporters and worsens the divide in the country. He has never once tried to be my President. His message is divisive, bullying and childish. Every President before him has tried to unify the country even around huge disagreement. All of them wanted to be the president for the whole country even though they disagree on policy.
His authoritarianism, crimes, racism, narcissism, moral deprivation, character flaws and policies are why I could not vote for him or his party.
Even though I don't like conflict, the Facebook conversation was illuminating. The Facebook commenter is not a terrible person at all. We wholeheartedly disagree on basic fundamental issues yet I was able to get a glimpse of understanding the "why" of Trump votes. A small glimpse and that is enough for now.
Namaste.
The divine in me bows to the divine in you.